3 Ways To Transform Your Relationship
What do you need today?
1. 7 Day Relationship Reset Podcast Series
Feeling overwhelmed with taking care of everyone else and putting your own needs to the side? Learn stop putting everyone else first and find your voice again.
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2. Relationship Rescue MembershipÂ
Get the support you need to rediscover yourself in and what you are needing at this time in your life. Feel more confident in yourself and clear about your relationship. Â
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3. "From Conflict To Connection" Communication Course
Communication course to help you get the tools you need to learn how to actually talk to each other, resolve issues and move forward, so you're not in the same fight over and over and maintain good communication for years to come.
LEARN MOREYou cannot control the past, but you can make a different choice for your future.
I understand because I've been there...
About me...
I want to share a little about me — not just the professional side, but the personal one too. Because the truth is, I didn’t grow up learning how to communicate well or take care of myself emotionally. I didn’t learn how to have healthy, connected relationships — and for a long time, I didn’t even realize how much I was neglecting my own needs to try to keep everything else together. Â
My parents divorced when I was young and my dad died, mom remarried and had kids with her new husband and all the while I was trying to scrap things together and I honestly didn’t do it very well. I made so many poor relationship choices and when I did make a good one I managed to mess it up in no time.
It wasn’t until I found myself repeating the same patterns that I had to get really honest with myself. I realized I was doing a lot of protecting, people-pleasing, and avoiding, and very little relating, asking, or advocating. Â
And once I started doing that deeper work, everything began to shift — in my marriage, in my relationships with other family, and most importantly, in how I saw and cared for myself.
About us...
My husband and I have always gotten along a lot of the time, but we also had this cycle of fighting, not talking about it, not repairing and just kind of slinking back together without resolving anything.Â
And eventually the fighting became more frequent and it was impacting all the other areas of our life. It was too much and we had to do something different or it was only going to keep getting worse. Â
Who would have thought...
I honestly never would have thought a few years ago that we would be where we are now. The difference is night and day. Â
We did it the hard way... on our own. I honestly wish we had gotten more help so we didn't have to take as long as we did to see this change. And you can do just that....Â
IÂ will help you learn how to take care of
yourself and your relationship both.
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You don't need to sacrifice you to have the
relationship you want (and deserve!)
What others have said
"When things are good, we’re great. I’m really glad we did this. I wish we’d done it sooner, but I’m glad we didn’t wait any longer."
"We’ve had behavior change for a short time working after working with other people, but this is the first time I’ve seen an emotional connection that change and I feel like it’s going to stick now. "
"This is most helpful session I’ve had with anyone.
I like that you gave me actual coaching for how to handle things instead of just listening."
I have extensive training specific to working with relationshipsÂ
In addition to having lived this in my own relationship (and continue to do so daily!), I am a certified Relational Life Therapy Practitioner. Â
it's my belief that...
Everyone deserves to feel confident in themselves and have the opportunity to have a happy, healthy relationship with their partner.Â
You need real support and advice for you and your situation. Â
